PYAAR; Mazaak hai kya?

Dilon Ki Kahaani Labzon Ki Zubaani 

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Kise kehte hai PYAAR? Kaise maloom padhta hai ki hamein hamara PYAAR mil gya? PYAAR ki asli paribhasha hai kya? Aaj tk iska jawab na kisi ko smjh aaya aur na hi ise smjhaya jaa skta hai. Kyunki PYAAR ek ehsaas hai jise sirf mehsoos kiya jaa skta hai. Isme koi science ya logic nahi bhara ki paper pr iski definition utaar kr sbko sikhaayi jaaye. Yeh sab muh boli baatein sbko maloom hai lekin fir bhi aaj bhi PYAAR main dokha khaye logon ki ginti kam nahi hui.Ek anjaan insaan se interaction hui. Thode samay sath uthne baithne se dosti hui. Dheere dheere dosti aur gehri hone ki jis vajah se ek doosre ki taraf feelings aane lagi. Ab batane main hichkichahat hui ki kayi dosti bhi khatam na hojaaye . Lekin fir bhi dono ko vibes aati rahi ki yeh rista dosti se aage hai. Fir ek ne himmat kri aur apne dil ki baat saamne rakhi , aur saamne vale ne use kabool kr is rishte ko PYAAR ka naam diya. Yahi hota hai na ? Areh aage ki kahani bhi toh bachi hai. Thoda samay beet ta hai is rishte ko , PYAAR bhari baatein hoti hai , har moment boht sundr lgta hai , aadat ban jaate hai ek doosre ki. Ab fir samay beet ta hai toh insecurities naamak shbd ki entrance hoti hai arthat JALAN. Ladke ki best female friend se aur ladki ka best male friend se ldki aur ladke ko respectively jalan hone lgti ya kuch bhi keh lo ki y he/she is spending more of time with them. Mind main ajeeb se questions umadne lgte hai ki does he genuinly love me , ki does she really have feelings for me . AM I BEING CHEATED? Nahi nahi jyada soch ri hun. I love her and i TRUST ki she also loves me. 

Fir joh in sab vehemo se ya ek doosre pr shak se paar paa lete hai yaa kahu ki relation main aaye sabhi challenges ko strongly paar krlete hai , voh future main apna relation behad khoobsurt position pr paate hai. And touchwood for all those beautiful love full relation. Lekin joh in sb jhamelo main khud ki soch pr control kho baith te hai , unka hojata hai BREAKUP. Lo mil gyi logon ko chugliyan. Toota hua ashik ban kr , so called broken heart lekr sirf ek hi sawal khud se krte rehna ki MERI KYA GALTI THI? Meri feelings toh genuine thi. Fir kuch isse ubhar jate hai with time and kuch yahi soch rakh kr ki "saare ladke ek jaise hote hai" , achche logon ka bhi patta kaat dete hai.

Kitni asaani se likh keh raha hai yeh, isne kabhi experience nahi kiya na , tb pata lagega kaisa lgta hai. Yahi soch re honge aap sab. Sorry i dont mean to hurt you . Lekin PYAAR kya mazaak hai?

PYAAR sirf ek baar hota hai. Jahan PYAAR mtlb vahan 100% TRUST , toh fir shak ki gunjaaish kyu? Aap kyu kisi ko itna hak dedete ho ki last main aap hi khud ko hurt hote hue paao. Aapko maloom hai ki aapko agr kisi se pyaar hua to voh genuine hoga, toh kyu aap itne weak padh jaate ho ki wrong person ke haath apne dil ko hi thama diya. Aaj aise kahi honge jinke saath logon ne cheat kiya , jinke PYAAR ki kadar nahi kri, aur unhi logon ne khud ko mayoos rakh kr , lagataar rokr kitni takleef pahunchayi. KYU? Maana PYAAR ki koi surat nahi lekin is rishte main aane se pehle socho toh sahi ki kya yeh sahi hai mere liye , ki kya mere aur mere pyaar ki kadar kri jaaegi , ki kya yeh MATURE LOVE hai. 

Hamesha insaan ki neeyat galat ya sahi hoti hai joh unhe achche aur bure categories main daalta hai . Toh aap khud ko itna strong banao ki aap yeh sensitive life based decision boht maturity ke saath le paao taaki ant main aapko na bhuktna padhe. Aur ek baat to sure hai ki agr aap kisi ke saath galat krte ho toh aapko bhi return main same ya usse bhi zyada worst face krne ko milega , kyunki VOH hai na , UNKE dar par achche krmo ka sundr fal aur bure krmo ki saza zaroor milti hai , koi bach nahi skta . 

Conclusion main ek hi baat hai kehne ko ki Aap apna aur apne dil ka boht zyada khyaal rakho aapke APNO ke liye and.....

DO FOLLOW YOUR HEART , BUT ALWAYS TAKE ALONG YOUR MIND WITH YOU