DOSTI

Dilon Ki Kahaani Labzon Ki Zubaani 

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Is duniya main sabse khoobsurat rishta DOSTI hai. Aaj main dosti ke baare main kuch kehna chahunga. Ham agar soche ki ek relation main, be it any , sbse main ingredient kya honge :UNDERSTANDING ,TRUST, HONESTY, CARE and all those related factors. In sbhi ko agr ek term main define krna hai toh voh hoga DOSTI. Isiliye mera manna hai ki kisi bhi rishte main jaise maa-beta, wife-husband, brother- sister, gf-bf etc, sbse zaroori ingredient hai DOSTI. Aap kisi ke saath comfortable feel krte ho, secure feel krte ho tabhi aap unke saath apne man ki baat share kr paate ho. And DOSTI is that relation where u feel 100% comfortable. 

Boht kismat se milte ha aise rishte. Main kisi ke relation ko neecha nahi dikhana chahta par SACHCHE DOST UNKI blessings se hi milte hai. You might have heard that phrase which says , in age group of 18-21, u meet many temporary people. Kahi na kahi yeh sach hai. Ham school ya colg main kisi se milte thode din guzarte hai saath khaana uthna rehna hota hai toh ham us insaan ko BEST FRIEND ka tag de dete hai, aur fir next class main jab shuffling hoti hai tb pata hi ni chlta ki kaise voh BEST FRIEND kisi aur ka  BEST FRIEND ban chuka hota hai and aapke life main bhi ek aur DOST add hojata hai.Boht mushkil hai yeh janna aur smjhna ki actually main WHO IS YOUR BEST FRIEND, kiske sath aapka aisa bond hai jisme aapka dil kehta hai ki YAAR YEH MERA YAAR.

Ham sabhi rishto ko dekhe jaise gf-bf ka toh usme ham apne partner ko apni strength aur weakness dono maante hai, maa-beta ke relation main kayi aise baatein hoti hai joh man share nahi kr pata. Isi vajah se DOSTI naam rishte ki ehmiyat increase ho jaati hai kyunki DOST sirf STRENGTH hota hai , aisi strength jiske saath dil ko complete feel hota hai and almost having friends of same age, aapka man kuch baat share krne se rokta nahi.

Main sbhi ko yeh advice krta hun ki aap sbko apna DOST banao, shyd sbhi ke saath tuning na ho pr with time u will get to know ki kon aapka SACHCHA YAAR hai. Boht sunder rishta hai yeh, u never feel alone as u know ki meri fikar krne vala ya vali bhi hai koi. And trust me yeh UNKI hi blessings hai kyunki aise connections asaani se nahi milte and meri dua hai ki is duniya main sabhi sachche rishte pyaar aur khushiyon se bane rahe.Mano ya na mano when u fight with ur mapa/brosis or gf/bf or wife/husband toh sbse pehle aap apne DOST ko hi yaad krte ho. And he/ she is like all time available for u (like VELA/LI). 

Meri sabhi se yahi request hai ki never ever let go these lifelong beautiful precious relations away from you. Vaise bhi yeh kameene hone ki vajah se peecha chodte nahi and also yeh DIL ka behad khoobsurat hissa ban jate hai. Dekho mujhe toh boht pyaar hai apne doston se and maloom hai aap bhi boht chahte ho toh unhe special feel krao ek pyaara sa msg bol ya likh kr and also yaar bhoolna nahi yeh posts share zaoor krna , apni kahani dosti ki ya views comments section mai zaroor bhejna.

Baaki main toh thera RAB G ka bhakt isiliye UNME VISHWAS ki baatein and is KHOOBSURAT RISHTE ke baare main mere dil ke bol ke saath apne man ki vibhin bakhaan krta rahunga pr mere liye boht zaroori hai janna ki aapko yeh sab pasand aara ya nahi, aur isme meri madad krne ke liye aap jaante hai aapko kya krna hai.

KHYAAL RAKHO APNA APNO KA AND KAMEENO KA BHI

And yes sharing a poem on dosti for all those friends in my next blog, stay tuned........