BEST FRIENDS , CONDITION APPLIED ?

Dilon Ki Kahaani Labzon Ki Zubaani 

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A boy and a girl can never be BEST FRIENDS. Saalon se chalti aari yeh soch mujhe boht khatakti hai. Toh isiliye aaj mera saval yahi hai ki WHY SO? 

First of all i am sorry if any of my thought hurts the reader or someone getting objected , but there are no such wrong intentions as these are the genuine facts which comes into my mind and i wish to share it with you guys.

So lets start.

Aksar suna hoga logon ko bolte hue ki ek ladka aur ek ladki kabhi bhi BEST FRIENDS nahi ho skte. Kisi na kisi side se kabhi na kabhi voh feelings aa hi jaati hai. Pr aisa kyu?? Kya sachi dosti gender ya sex dekh ke hi kari jaati hai , ya yeh kahu ki dil kisi ko apna sachcha yaar maanne lagta hai toh usse pehle dimaag use kehta hai ki ruk jaa voh doosre gender ka hai. Yeh sab padh ke boht ajeeb lag raha hoga ki kya likhta hai yeh , pr ek baar thoda gaur se sochna is baare main. This has been my personal life experience too.

BEST FRIENDS, yeh joh rishta hai na sbse pehle iski ehmiyat aur ismein basa pyaar shyd hi shbdon main samjhaya ja ske kyunki yeh sbse khoobsurat ehsaas hai. Aur aap mein se jin jin ko bhi RAB G ne in sundar rishto se nawaza hai like me, unko dhero saari badhaaiyan kyunki yeh rishte kismat waalon ko hi milte hai. 

Kon hai BEST FRIEND? Shyd voh joh bina kuch kahe ya bina kuch sune samjh jaata hai ki aap pareshaan ho. Shyd voh jiske hone se hi jiski maujoodgi se hi aap complete feel krte ho. Shyd voh jiski ek jhappi saare gam bhula deti hai. Shyd voh jispr APNO se bhi zyada hak jataya jaata hai. Shyd voh joh aapki dua main automatically shaamil hojata hai. Shyd voh jiske bina aap jeene ka soch bhi ni sakte. Agr yeh rishta itna hi khoobsurat hai, toh laazmi hai ki is rishte main do dil ek doosre se judte hai. Jab dilon ki buniyat pr bani is rishte main pyaar ki khoobsurat imaarte tikti hai toh kaise koi keh skta hai ki nahi ek ladka aur ek ladki kabhi bhi BEST FRIENDS nahi ho skte. Kyu aaj bhi agr ek ladka ladki ko saath dekh liya jaaye toh bs dimaag main pehla thought aata hai ki they might be having an affair. Mtlb na jaan na pehchaan bina mtlb ke bana li judgement on anjaan insaans. Jokes apart, why there is such a mentality which dont allow a girl and a boy to share a beautiful and true  relation of FRIENDSHIP. 

This happens very often if i am not wrong, ki jab bhi do dost (ladka ladki) apni FRIENDSHIP ko strong and deep bane dekhte hai , wahi pr aas paas ke log (jinke saath uthna baithta hota hai) ki soch ka indirect pressure unpr padhta hai jis vajah se they dont feel comfortable in depicting their real bond. Meri soch main yeh bilkul galat hai kyunki main maanta hun dosti dil se hoti hai aur dil kabhi bhi kisi ki soorat ya gender ya race ya cast dekh kr kisi se pyaar nai krta ya kisi se dosti ka hath nahi badhata, blki use bas us dil se lagaav hota hai and then this goes long with both hearts becoming strength of each other.

Dosti ek aisa khoobsurat ehsaas hai joh har rishte main hai. Apka BEST FRIEND apka bhai, teacher, mother, father, driver, ladka , ladki , aapke pets , infact teddy bears koi bhi ho skta hai koi bhi kyunki dil sabko saaf aur sachchi nazron se dekhta hai. Yeh bhi true hai ki jis couple ka rishta BEST FRIENDS ban kr shuru hota hai voh boht long term and successful bhi jaata hai. But this is also true ki a girl feels real comfortable and secure with her male best friend. And those relations exists which are behad strong full of love.

Toh aaj aap apne har sachche dost ko special feel karane ke liye unhe bataye ki no matter what happens you will love  them for whole life and even beyond. 

SPECIAL LOVE TO MY BESTFRIENDS