KHUSHIYAN ; Neither Consistent Nor Permanent

Dilon Ki Kahaani Labzon Ki Zubaani 

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Kisi ne ek baar sawal kiya ki khushiyan permanent kyu nahi hoti. Kyu sirf do pal ki khushi ke baad man firse pareshaan hojata hai. Boht hi random baat hai yeh pr dhyaan se smjhi jaye to padhne main maza aaega. Jisne yeh sawal kiya tha, use aksr shikayat rehti thi ki jinke saath kuch pal bita kr achcha lgta tha kuch samay baad hi unka koi ata pata nahi. Jinhone vaade kiye saath rehne ke , unse kab rishta khud b khud anjaan hogya pta hi na chala. Toh kyu kisi ke saath rehkr milti khushiyon main consistency nahi hai. Jis din yeh baat uthi , usi din ek incidence maine experience kiya jisse main is baat ko relate kr paya.

Toh kya hua ki I have a hobby of feeding dogs or animals wherever possible through biscuits, milk, bread or so. Toh generally when i go to park right in front of my house, then i take along packets of biscuits for dogs. Maine dekha ki ek female dog ne puppies ko birth diya hota hai jise i mostly provide food. Toh achcha laga dekh ke jab puppies ko voh feed krti hai. Aise hi usi din main busicuits lejana bhool gya. When i reached park , then i realised ki aaj reh gya. Then what i saw was ki unmain se ek puppy ko kisi doosre animal ne leg pr kaata hua tha , which was appearing a gehra zakham. Aur usi zakham pr ek Uncle bandage laga rahe the . I saw and was very happy.

Ab aap sbko lagega yeh kya likha hai smjh hi ni aaya. How this incidence can relate to topic mentioned in this post.

Jis female dog ko mujhse biscuits (khushiyan) milre the to further feed her babies , use ek din mujhse voh nahi mila lekin usi din ek Uncle ne uske bachche ke gehre zakham pr marham (khushiyan) laga diya.

Yeh baat shyd ajeeb lagegi smjhne main , shyd kya confirm lagegi. Lekin iske peeche chipa joh message hai voh smjh aajaye toh mera mksat poora. Khushiyon ka koi confirm samay nahi hota, na hi jyada der tk tikti hai. Jinke saath kuch pal bita kr lagta hai ki ab hamari khushiyon ka zariya yahi hai, kuch samay baad vahi anjaan ban jaate hai. Khush rehne ke liye hamein hi apna nazariya aisa banana hoga jisse ham har situation main khush reh ske. Yaani hamein khud un khushiyon ko dhoondhna hoga joh shyd ham dukhi hokr gava dete hai ya nazarandaaz krdete hai. Joh present main chal raha hai use RAB G ka decision maankr , khush rehne ki koshish krni chahiye. Haanji bilkul sahi socha aapne ki yeh kehna asaan hai aur krna behad mushkil. Lekin khushiyon pr itna dependent nahi hona chahiye ki gam aane pr hosla toot jaaye . Blki khud ko aur apno ko sambhaalne ke liye un unwanted dukh bhari situation main bhi khush rehne ki vajah dhoondhni chahiye taaki aap apno ke liye real strength ban paao.

Khushiyan agr permanent hai , Khushiyan agr consistent hai toh sirf aur sirf RAB G ke charno main. Asli sukoon sirf UNKE saath se hi mil skta hai. Jisne UNKO paa liya usne sab paa liya. Jisne UNKO apne dil main basa liya usne sab haasil krliya bs UNSE dua kro ki UNKA karam sada bana rahe aur joh UNHE manzoor VOH vahi kre, vahi best hai asli khushi UNHI ke karam se milegi kyunki.........

RAB HI SAB HAI