MAA aur PAPA

Dilon Ki Kahaani Labzon Ki Zubaani 

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MAA

Is duniya main RAB G ki sbse badhi blessings kisi bhi bachche ke liye uski maa hai. Kamaal hai na joh maa 9 maheene tk apne bachche ko apne pet main sambhaal kr rakhti hai , vohi maa apne bahche ke paida hone se lekar jab tk zinda hai tb tk uska khyaal rakhti hai. Jab bachcha chota hota hai toh use smjh nahi hoti voh poora apni maa pr dependent rehta hai. Chalna , bolna , padhna , likhna , koodna sab voh usi se seekhta hai. Yeh kehna galat nahi hoga ki ek bachcha sabse zyada samay apni maa ke saath bitata hai isiliye uska svabhaav poora nahi pr lgbhag unhi ke jaisa bn jaata hai. Bachcha bhale kisi bhi umar main ho lekin apni maa ke liye voh uska bachcha hi rehta hai. Pr kitna ajeeb hai na ki badhe hote hote maa ki ehmiyat kam hoti jaati hai. Mtlb ki life main dost aajate hai fir life partner se rishta bandh jaata hai aur fir bachche hote hai, jiski vajah se shyd kahi na kahi hamesha ek kami si mehsoos hoti hai ki maa ko voh pyaar de na paaya joh har maa ne apni poori life apne bahche se chaha. Aur us bahche ko yeh kab realise hota hai jab uska apna bahcha hojata hai. Ek maa apni poori life apne bahchon ko pyaar hi deti hai aur badle main kuch nahi maangti bs akal ho toh smjh aajaega ki use bhi vahi pyaar hi chahiye hota hai. Pr ham jyada hi smjhdaar hojaate hai badhe hokr , ki doston ke saath late bahar rehte hai pr maa ne phone krke pooch liya late kyu toh uspe cheek dete hai. Ya girlfriend or wife ke saath shopping pr ya movie ke liye chale gaye , ghr pr batana bhool gaye aur dinner saath main krne ke liye maa wait krti rahi. Boht asaan hai yeh baatein kehna pr fir bhi maa ki asli ehmiyat aaj tk koi na smjh paaya hai na hi use smjhaaya jaa skta hai kyunki voh pyaar hai hi itna paak ki yuhi thoda maa ko RAB se relate kiya gaya. Ek maa kbhi apne bahche pr haar nahi skti, ar badhe hojaane ke baad bhi jab bimaar padh jao to us maa ko hi yaad kiya jaata hai kyunki use hi maloom kya hai sahi ilaaj. Salaam hai us har maa ko jisne itna pyaar is duniya main uske har bahche ko diya aur shukriya hai us RAB ka jinhone use banaya aur dua hai UNSE ki voh har maa ko sada sahisalamat rakhe, aur har bachche ko uski maa ke saath rehne ki blessings de ,uska pyaar paane ka sukh pradaan kre aur us maa ki ehmiyat smjhne ki sadbuddhi bakshe voh bhi sahi samay pr.

PAPA

Shyd is duniya main sbse underestimated ya less valued insaan koi hoga toh voh hai PAPA. Kyunki papa hamesha apne parivaar ki dekh baal ke liye , sukh ke liye mehnat main lage rehte hai. Aur bachchon ki har khwaaish ko poori krne ke liye jee jaan laga dete hai. Shyd yeh ek badha reason hai ki generally bachchon ka attachment unke father se kam hota hai in comparison to mother. Lekin yeh fact ek dam sach hai ki voh maa bhi apne pati ki vajah se hi khud ko aur apne bachchon ko secure feel krti hai. Papa poore ghr ki responsibility aur saari major tensions akele jhel lete hai bina kuch kisi ko bataye aur itne strong hote hai ki chehre pr dikhate bhi nahi. Aur hasi ki baat yeh hai ki bahcha badhe hote hote jahan maa ki ehmiyat kam aakne lgta hai, vahi papa ko toh kuch smjhta hi nahi. Aaj ke daur main yeh boht badha sach hai ki us maa ke liye hamesha uska pati hi stand krta hai aur saath deta hai , sale nikamme bachche bhi unhe chod dete hai. Maa jahan bahchon ke liye emotional strength and caring support hoti hai vahi father bachchon ke liye securing guardian , wish fulfiller aur mental strength bante hai. He teaches and makes us strong for how to deal with the outside world. Aur har bahche ko maloom hai ki uske papa hai uske saath tabhi jab kisi ke saath baat bigde na toh bachche aps main dhamki dete hai ki main apne papa ko bataunga. Hehe. Jis tarah maa RAB ka roop hai usi tarah papa bhi UNHI ka roop hai kyunki maa aur papa ek hai alag nahi aur meri dua hai ki har bachche ko uske papa ka saath and guidance and that secure caring strenghtful support mile and UNKE karam se sbhi papa har pal sahi salamat rahe aur strong rahe.

Bs yaar apne maa papa ki ehmiyat sahi samay pr smjh lo aur bhale kuch bhi unhe kabhi akela nahi chodna kyunki aaj bhi agr tumhein koi tension hoti hai toh sbse pehle vohi aaenge tumhara saath dene. Khush raho aur RAB G har maa papa pr apna karam banaye rakhna and unhe vohi deserving pyaar dilwaana joh unhone apne bachchon ko bina kisi condition ke diya.

Pyaar ho toh sirf RAB se

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Ek badhi hi dilchasp kahaani sunne ko mili jisne man moh liya. Ek insaan RAB G se behad pyaar krta aur poora din UNHI ki pooja krne main UNKI seva krne main laga rehta . Uske Vishwas aur pyaar ki pareeksha lene ke liye RAB G ne ek khel racha. Ek din ek aisi list nikli jisme dikhaya gaya un logon ka naam joh RAB G se boht pyaar krte hai aur jinke liye RAB hi sab hai. Voh insaan khush ho jaata hai ki is list main toh mera naam zaroor hoga. Upar se neeche tak dekhta hai pr use apna naam hi nazar nahi aata. Boht niraash hojata hai aur krodhit hojata hai ki mere liye AAP sab ho pr AAPKO main is kaabil lagta hi nahi. Mere pyaar , bhakti ya seva main konsi kami reh gyi thi. Boht dukhi ho jaata hai. Kisi se baat nahi krta. 

Fir thode din baad ek list nikalti hai jisme dikhaya jaata hai un logon ka naam jinse RAB G boht zyada pyaar krte hai. Ab us insaan ko pata chlta hai iske baare main toh voh dukhi aur naraaz man se list ko dekhne hi nahi jaata hai. Aise main uske paas 4-5 log aate hai aur use batate hai ki vaah kya kismat paayi hai aapne  ki aapka naam is list main sabse pehle. Yeh sunke hairan hojata hai aur fir RAB G se maafi maangta hai ki, usne apne pyaar aur vishwas main, sirf ek dikhaave ki cheez se behak kr, shak kiya aur shukriya bhi kiya ki RAB G ne use is kaabil smjha aur uske pyaar ko is had tak apnaaya.

Is par RAB G farmaate hai, ki MAIN nahi kehta tum mujhmain vishwas kro ya mujhse pyaar kro lekin agr krte ho toh fir usme koi kami nahi honi chahiye, kabhi bhi kahi bhi shak ki gunjaaish nahi honi chahiye. Aur sach bhi hai ki is duniya main agr kahi asli sukoon hai toh sirf RAB G ke pyaar main. Duniya main koi aapke saath rahe na rahe, aapka saath de na de , pr RAB G har pal aapke saath rehte hai aur  aapka khyaal rakhte hai. Bs UNSE dua yahi kro ki sab AAPKE  havale hai aur sab kuch AAPKI marzi ke mutaabik hi ho , bs AAP hamein APMA pyaar pradaan kre aur hamein APNE charno main har pal har saans lagaaye rakhein.

Voh MAALIK-E-DO-JAHAAN hai , likhi hui takdeer bhi badal skte hai , aur voh RAB hai isiliye karishmein krte hai bs ham insaano ko mehsoos aur believe nahi hota ki na jaane kab kaise voh hamein musoobiton se bacha lete hai aur toh aur dukh ko ham tak pahunchne bhi nahi dete hai. Aap bs achche karam kro RAB G mein atoot vishwas rakho aur UNSE beimtehaan mohabbat kro, daava hai mera ki sukh aur sukoon jhak maarke aapke paas aaegi kyunki.........

RAB HI SAB HAI 

RAB G's Blessings, Karam anusar

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Ek baar ek insaan ne RAB G se shikayat kari ki AAPKE decisions sahi nahi hote kyunki AAP sabke saath sahi insaaf nahi krte. AAPKE bachche takleef main hote hai , unhe AAPKE karam ki zaroorat hoti hai aur AAP unki pareshaaniyon ka hal boht der se krte ho ki mayoos hokr sab haar maan lete hai. 

Is par RAB G us insaan ko kehte hai ki ab joh hoga use tu chup chap dekhega aur kuch bolega nahi.

Saamne dikhayi deta hai ki ek cow ka pair keechad main fas jaata hai toh ek chor (thief) aakr uski maddad krta hai aur keechad se uska pair nikal deta hai . Fir thodi der baad ek cow ka pair keechad main fas jaata hai aur is baar uski maddad krne ek saadhu aata hai.

CHOR aur SAADHU dono hi thodi door chlte hai toh CHOR ko koode ke dher main ek sone(gold) ki potli milti hai jisse voh khush. Aur vahi SADHU ko chlte hue pair main ek keel chubh jaata hai.

Ab yeh sab dekh voh insaan vyaakul ho uthta hai ki aisa kyu hua ki CHOR jisne poora jeevan bure karam hi kiye , choriyan kr logon ko pareshaan kiya , use sone ki potli ka inaam kyu ; Aur doosri or SAADHU jisne aajeevan RAB G ka naam japa achche karam kiye seva kri , use keel chubha kr saza di jabki dono ne ek jaisa hi karam kiya.

Itni behchaini ke saath usne RAB G pr fir shikayat krte hue poocha ki kyu aisi naainsaafi kri, kyu CHOR aur SAADHU ko unke karmo ka sahi fal nahi mila?

Ispr RAB G farmate hai ki yahi tumhari cheezon ko smjhna ka galat nazariya tumhare man main basi patience aur vishwas ko hilata hai. Farmate hai ki us CHOR ki kismat main raja banna likha tha. Usne jeevan bhar bure kaam kiye isiliye cow ki maddad kr achcha karam krne pr use sirf sone ki potli mili. Vahi SAADHU ke kismat main faasi likhi thi. Uske achche krmo ki vajah se aur cow ki maddad kr ek aur achcha karam krne se , use sirf ek choti si keel chubho kr faasi se bacha liya.

RAB G ki nazaron se koi nahi bach skta VOH sab jaante hai kyunki VOH RAB hai . Kabhi na kabhi kaise na kaise krke aapko aapke karmo ka fal zaroor milega. Ab yeh aap pr depend krta hai ki aap apna account kin krmo se bharte ho. VOH Dono jahan ke MAALIK hai , VOH likhi hui takdeer bhi badal skte hai. Bs aapke haath main hai ki aap RAB G pr vishwas krte ho ya nahi ; aur kya aapmein voh sabar hai ki UNKI decided raah pr aap bina kisi tension aur shak se chl skte ho ya nahi.

Agr  aapne RAB G pr sab kuch saump diya hai toh bhool jao aapke saath kya hoga . Aap sirf karam achche kro aur RAB G ke decisions pr vishwas rakho kyunki.....

RAB HI SAB HAI

 

PYAAR; Mazaak hai kya?

Dilon Ki Kahaani Labzon Ki Zubaani 

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Kise kehte hai PYAAR? Kaise maloom padhta hai ki hamein hamara PYAAR mil gya? PYAAR ki asli paribhasha hai kya? Aaj tk iska jawab na kisi ko smjh aaya aur na hi ise smjhaya jaa skta hai. Kyunki PYAAR ek ehsaas hai jise sirf mehsoos kiya jaa skta hai. Isme koi science ya logic nahi bhara ki paper pr iski definition utaar kr sbko sikhaayi jaaye. Yeh sab muh boli baatein sbko maloom hai lekin fir bhi aaj bhi PYAAR main dokha khaye logon ki ginti kam nahi hui.Ek anjaan insaan se interaction hui. Thode samay sath uthne baithne se dosti hui. Dheere dheere dosti aur gehri hone ki jis vajah se ek doosre ki taraf feelings aane lagi. Ab batane main hichkichahat hui ki kayi dosti bhi khatam na hojaaye . Lekin fir bhi dono ko vibes aati rahi ki yeh rista dosti se aage hai. Fir ek ne himmat kri aur apne dil ki baat saamne rakhi , aur saamne vale ne use kabool kr is rishte ko PYAAR ka naam diya. Yahi hota hai na ? Areh aage ki kahani bhi toh bachi hai. Thoda samay beet ta hai is rishte ko , PYAAR bhari baatein hoti hai , har moment boht sundr lgta hai , aadat ban jaate hai ek doosre ki. Ab fir samay beet ta hai toh insecurities naamak shbd ki entrance hoti hai arthat JALAN. Ladke ki best female friend se aur ladki ka best male friend se ldki aur ladke ko respectively jalan hone lgti ya kuch bhi keh lo ki y he/she is spending more of time with them. Mind main ajeeb se questions umadne lgte hai ki does he genuinly love me , ki does she really have feelings for me . AM I BEING CHEATED? Nahi nahi jyada soch ri hun. I love her and i TRUST ki she also loves me. 

Fir joh in sab vehemo se ya ek doosre pr shak se paar paa lete hai yaa kahu ki relation main aaye sabhi challenges ko strongly paar krlete hai , voh future main apna relation behad khoobsurt position pr paate hai. And touchwood for all those beautiful love full relation. Lekin joh in sb jhamelo main khud ki soch pr control kho baith te hai , unka hojata hai BREAKUP. Lo mil gyi logon ko chugliyan. Toota hua ashik ban kr , so called broken heart lekr sirf ek hi sawal khud se krte rehna ki MERI KYA GALTI THI? Meri feelings toh genuine thi. Fir kuch isse ubhar jate hai with time and kuch yahi soch rakh kr ki "saare ladke ek jaise hote hai" , achche logon ka bhi patta kaat dete hai.

Kitni asaani se likh keh raha hai yeh, isne kabhi experience nahi kiya na , tb pata lagega kaisa lgta hai. Yahi soch re honge aap sab. Sorry i dont mean to hurt you . Lekin PYAAR kya mazaak hai?

PYAAR sirf ek baar hota hai. Jahan PYAAR mtlb vahan 100% TRUST , toh fir shak ki gunjaaish kyu? Aap kyu kisi ko itna hak dedete ho ki last main aap hi khud ko hurt hote hue paao. Aapko maloom hai ki aapko agr kisi se pyaar hua to voh genuine hoga, toh kyu aap itne weak padh jaate ho ki wrong person ke haath apne dil ko hi thama diya. Aaj aise kahi honge jinke saath logon ne cheat kiya , jinke PYAAR ki kadar nahi kri, aur unhi logon ne khud ko mayoos rakh kr , lagataar rokr kitni takleef pahunchayi. KYU? Maana PYAAR ki koi surat nahi lekin is rishte main aane se pehle socho toh sahi ki kya yeh sahi hai mere liye , ki kya mere aur mere pyaar ki kadar kri jaaegi , ki kya yeh MATURE LOVE hai. 

Hamesha insaan ki neeyat galat ya sahi hoti hai joh unhe achche aur bure categories main daalta hai . Toh aap khud ko itna strong banao ki aap yeh sensitive life based decision boht maturity ke saath le paao taaki ant main aapko na bhuktna padhe. Aur ek baat to sure hai ki agr aap kisi ke saath galat krte ho toh aapko bhi return main same ya usse bhi zyada worst face krne ko milega , kyunki VOH hai na , UNKE dar par achche krmo ka sundr fal aur bure krmo ki saza zaroor milti hai , koi bach nahi skta . 

Conclusion main ek hi baat hai kehne ko ki Aap apna aur apne dil ka boht zyada khyaal rakho aapke APNO ke liye and.....

DO FOLLOW YOUR HEART , BUT ALWAYS TAKE ALONG YOUR MIND WITH YOU  

VISHWAS sang SHUKRIYA

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Ek insaan registaan main boht der se bhatak raha. Paani bhi khatam hogya aur pyaas ke maare jaan nikl rahi. Boht der chlne ke baad , almost marne ki halat main ek kuan nazar aaya . Bhaagta hua kuen ke paas gya , par fir niraash hogya. Kua main paani ka level boht kam aur paani nikalne ke liye koi cheez dhoondhta hai toh milti nahi. Udaas hokr baith gya. 

Itni der main ek  hiran (deer) kuen ke paas akr apna muh hi sirf aage krta hai aur paani ka level khud b khud upr aajata hai. Use paani peete dekh , voh insaan rone lgta hai aur upar dekh kr kosta hai ki maine konsa gunah kiya tha joh mujhe pani peene ki ijaazat nahi mili.

Ispr ek awaaz aayi ki registan main jahan paani ka naamo nishan nahi vahan tujhe kuan dediya , pr vahan pahunch kr bhi tu paani nikalne ki cheez khojne main laga hua aur na milne pr niraash hokr haar maan li. EK BAAR HAATH TOH AAGE BADHATA. 

Yeh baat sunkr maafi mangte hue UNKA shukriya kr paani se apni pyaas bhujayi aur UNKE pyaar se apne jeevan ki .

Aisa aksr hota hai ki behad mushkil dor se guzarte hue ham haar maan lete hai aur galat kadam uthate hai khud ko aur apne kareebe logon ko takleef dekr. Lekin yeh bhool jaate hai ki agr ham itne pareshaan hai toh UNHE apne bachon ki haalat dekh kr pareshaani nahi hoti hogi kya? VOH RAB hai VOH sab jaante hai. Hamein bs apni pareshaani ke aage kuch nazar ni aata aur jab ham us bure wakt ke daur ke antim palon main hote hai, jab khushiyon se bhara samay bs ek ya do kadam ki doori pr hota hai  , bs tabhi haar maan jaate hai. 

Boht zaroori hai apne VISHWAS ko hamesha kayam rakhna kyunki UNKE karam se hi bure wakt se chutkara  aur achche palon ki khushiyan naseeb hongi. 

Kuch bhi ho kabhi haar nahi maanni chahiye. Aap jahan tk pahunche ho usme aapki lagan aur UNKA karam boht zyada hai , toh use maddenazar rakhte hai khud main belief hona behad zaroori hai. Agr do pal niraash ke, boht saare khushiyon ke palon main aa bhi jaaye toh usse tootna kyu , blki un palon main aap khud ko aur strong banao. Ek baat to confirm hai ki agr aapke karam achche hai to aapke saath kabhi bura nahi hoga. Haan bhaari samay shyd aajaye lekin, UNKE karam se VOH aapki har pal raksha krte hai aapka dhyaan rakhte hai aur voh bhaari samay kab nikl jaaega pata bhi ni chalega.

Bs har pal UNKA shukriya krte jaao ,khud main believe kro, UNMEIN vishwas rakho kyunki........

RAB HI SAB HAI