10 SUCCESSFUL MANTRA'S OF LIFE

Dilon Ki Kahaani Labzon Ki Zubaani 

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1) GOD does not forces you to have faith in HIM , but when you do then do not allow yourself to have doubts on what HE has decided for you. You might ask for something and you don't even know that HE has already written better for you.

2) Be a personality with whom everyone wish to talk , share and like to be with. Get out of your reserved nature. Be the person everyone wants to. No matter how much problems you are into but don't let anyone know with that charming face , so that others receive vibes of positivity from you.

3) Always respect your parents. Give them the position and love they deserve , throughout your life. They might get angry when they are even wrong , but you do not give wrong prompt reactions. Cause you know once they realise with time and stable mind , they will give you the most beautiful affection and care in this world.

4) Have patience at every step. Make wise decision. If you get stuck up , can't decide what to do , just leave everything  on the ALL MIGHTY. Just say I Surrender. Trust me you ll feel relief. But do not be impatient and also do not give immediate reactions, cause A moment of patience in the moment of anger or sadness , can save you from loads of regretful moments.

5) When you decide to do something ,means once you decide to take a certain path in your life, just don't affect yourselves with failures. You just give your best and do not worry about the results. Just make sure that there should not be a time where you doubt on your preparation or the hardwork done, cause this will make you give your best shot. And then do not worry with outcomes , cause GOD will automatically lead you towards HIS desired directions. DO NOT GIVE UP.

6) Gift a smile. Just do good with others and for others. Spread happiness in this cruel world and be the symbol of love for everyone. Don't hurt anyone. Do not treat anyone as stranger and help others as much as you can. Do not allow your mind to discriminate between poor and rich, animals or human beings , just help everyone. It is definite and true that what you do, comes back to you.

7) Try to get the hidden intentions of others. Cause when you know about intentions of others, you automatically understand what he/she wants to display. This will clear all the misunderstandings when you just make yourself stand in other's position and mind. 

8) Keep yourself fit and healthy both physically and mentally. This is a major fact of bringing positivity in oneself. Take good care of your health cause you don't live only for yourself but for your close ones too.

9) Be any kind of relationship : Mother and child; Best friends: Husband and wife; Sister and Brother; Boyfriend and Girlfriend or any , do not let the love ,care and affection go away with time and/or distance. Diseases like communication gap, hesitation to initiate the talk, etc brings that unwanted fadeness and misunderstandings out of nowhere into those beautiful bonds. Just do not stop bringing those efforts to increase love in it , even when your partner is not able to. 

10) If you have a dream, chase it. If you are passionate about something , do not leave it. Just do all those things you love to do and you get happy to do,  where only one condition exists that it should not harm others and yourself too .

UNDERSTANDING

Dilon Ki Kahaani Labzon Ki Zubaani 

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Kya main joh kehna chahta tha voh samjh paayi? Usne meri baat toh sun li par voh mujhe smjh ni paaya. Main kya samjhaana chahti thi aur usne kya samjh liya. Meri baat toh kisi ko smjh hi ni aati. Kaash unhone mujhe smjha hota.

Yeh sab voh sawaal hai joh har insaan ko pareshaan krte hai. Yeh voh baatein hai joh sbke man main reh jaati jinka koi jawab nahi hota aur jinki vajah se har koi kabhi na kabhi khud ko down feel karata hai. Kyu hota hai aisa kyu man voh ashanka ya doubts ke baadal reh jaate hai kyun tasalli nahi milti. Aaj main is neev yaani UNDERSTANDING pr baat karunga jiski vajah se yeh saare sawaalon ki imaarte banti hai.

Boss ko kaam se related usi ke sawal ka jawab dene niklo aur reply main kya milta hai, bhashan ki yeh sahi tareeka nahi joh maine poocha uska jawab do. Ab bhayii jawab ki bhasha badal di hai kya, joh yeh tareeka sahi nahi. Seedha bolo na smjh ni aaya.

Girl friend ko batana bhool gya yaa samay na mil paane ki vajah se nahi bata paaya ki boht zaroori kaam se urgent kahi jaana hai jis karan aaj ka plan possible nahi ho paaega, toh girl friend ke hazaar sawal kyu kisliye kiske saath tumhare liye main zaroori nahi. Areh tu zaroori na hoti toh tujhse kiya pyaar kya acting hai meri? 

Din bhar ki thakan main office se ghr aaye bete se maa poochti kya khaaega beta, kya hua chehra itna utra kyu hua hai. Aur beta apni saari frustration thakaan maa ke upr chilla kr bina chahat ke nikaal deta hai. Maa kya sochti ki maine toh apne bete ka haal janne ke liye poocha bs, meri kya galti?

Na jaane aisi kitni baatein hongi joh sirf aur sirf misunderstanding ki vajah se jagti hai, aur jinka output sirf aur sirf worst ya unwanted hi aata hai. Ab kre toh kre kya.

Main manta hun ki sbse pehla step joh ham sabko chadna hai apne aap main voh hai PATIENCE ka yaani sabar. Ham sabmein sabar hona boht zaroori hai. Ham situation ki happening main itne excited yaa itne udaas hojaate hai ki khud ko sambhaal nahi paate , instead we should have that patience factor in us so as to have stable mindset and relaxed heart.

Next step main  hamein sabar ko saath rakhte hue situation main mature act krne ki zaoorat hai. Saamne vali ki baat ko sunkar uska kehne ka mtlb smjhkar ki aakhir voh yeh sab keh kyu raha hai aur fir thande dimaag se uska reply usi ke baat ke according dena chahiye taaki uski baat aapko aur apki baat use bilkul vaise hi samajh aaye jaise aap dono smjhana chahte ho. Isse kabhi misunderstanding nahi hogi.

Ab main apni soch main sbse important baat joh mujhe lagti hai voh kahunga. 

Ham jab kabhi bhi kisi bhi situation main ya communication ka part hote hai toh hamein hamesha saamne vale ki position main rehkr uski kahi hui baat ko smjhna chahiye kyunki isse hamein smjh aajaaega ki uski intention kya hai aur ek baar ham saamne vale ki intention smjh le toh fir koi baat hi ni reh jaati. This is easy to say but practically its very difficult to implement. And if you think once regarding this matter you will find that you might also be lacking somewhere in implementing it, even when you know that you need to. Because its in human nature of not being cool and not  behaving mature with getting bad results in form of conflicts , making angry and so on , which you didn't wanted to actually happen.

Agar Boss apne employee ki baat dhyaan se smjh leta ya Girl friend apne partner pr trust kr uski majboori smjh leti yaa Beta maa ki care bhari intentions pehchaan leta toh kya inme se koi bhi situation bigadti?

That's all we need to understand. We have to keep ourselves cool , possess patience and act mature. You will surely find your heart being relaxed with providing results of positive mindset.

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