HELP... kbhi krke dekho achcha lgta hai !!

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Help. Char akshar ka ek shbd , lekin iske mtlb anek aur tareeke toh jitne socho utne kam. Aaj kaafi samay baad likh raha hun toh socha kyun na koi aisa topic liya jaaye jispr shyd log jyada attract nahi honge pr thoda dhyaan diya jaaye toh kitna zaroori hai iska mool smjhna. Toh help ka aakhir roop kya hai mtlb kya hai. Kabhi socha hai ki dictionary mein joh is shbd ka mtlb likha hai  ki " Supporting those who are in need", ye apne aap mein kuch na kehr kr bhi boht kuch kehra hai. Kitna easy hai ham sbke liye ki ham jab chahe jis had tk chahe utna doosron ki maddad kr skte hai aur fir bhi gunjaaish khtm nhi hoti HELP krne ki. Mtlb RAB G ne hamein yeh saubhagya diya hai mauka diya hai ki ham jitna chahe utna achcha kr skta hai kisi bhi maddad kr and fir voh kahavat bhi apne aap mein poori hojaati hai ki "Tu achche karam krte jaa , teri takdeer ko sunhera krna meri zimmedari". 

Yeh fact ki HELP ka koi particular mool roop nahi ya koi restrictions nhi behad achcha lgta hai. Zara dekhe apni soch mein HELP ke kya roop ho skte hai. Aapko kuch batana ho na toh comments mein zaroor daalna.

• Gareeb ko khaane ke liye kuch dena , thand mein do chaar kapde dena , kisi weekend pr zaroorat mand logon ke liye chai naashte ka prabandh krna kya sirf yahi HELP mein aata hai? Beshak yeh krna boht achchi baat hai pr HELP sirf yahi tk nhi rukti, aage suno.
•  Koi apna joh kisi takleef mein hai , udaas hai ya confuse hai ki mn ki baat share kru ya nhi. Use itna apna banana ki voh yeh kabhi soche hi na, apne aap mein ek maddad ka roop hai.
• Agr aap kisi bhi zaroorat mand ke liye earning opportunity create krte ho job offer/refer krke toh socho kitni zyada badhi madad hai.
• Ek teacher bahchon ko padhati hai. Haan it is a profession pr socho bahchon ka future shape krne mein kitni zyada ehmiyat hai is maddad ki.
• Logon ke chehre pr smile laana jahan har koi apne jeevan mein pareshaan hai, kisi ko khush krna kitni positive vibes se bhara ehsaas hai
• Street animals ko jahan tk possible kuch khaane ko dena apne aap mein ek tasalli deta hai jisse u know dil smile krta hai

Ab bs aur examples nahi dera mujhe pta hai it is getting bored. Bs aaj ki post se maksad smjhaane ka yahi tha ki as a human being kabhi bhi apne man main yeh khyaal mat aane dena ki usne kya meri maddad kri thi jab mujhe zaroorat thi? Maloom hai mushkil hai yeh krna jitna asaan kehna pr aap toh na change hokr use bhi sharminda kr skte ho joh apne samay main mukar gaya. Aap apna lage raho. I dont know kitne logon ne yeh sach mein face kiya hai but i had many times , ki aap jitni logon ki maddad kroge obviously log aapko pasand krenge , pr utni hi jldi aapke paas voh maddad pahunchegi jab aap zaroorat mein hoge. Its an account which is to be filled with good work and uski barkat RAB G apne krte jaaenge. Pr haan kisi ke galat kaam mein maddad mat krna bhayi blki use sahi raaste pr laakr smjhakr uska kalyaan kro. 

Baaki NAYA SAAL 2019 ka aap sbko boht zyada mubaarik. Khush raho aur RAB G ko khush krte raho. 

10 SUCCESSFUL MANTRA'S OF LIFE

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1) GOD does not forces you to have faith in HIM , but when you do then do not allow yourself to have doubts on what HE has decided for you. You might ask for something and you don't even know that HE has already written better for you.

2) Be a personality with whom everyone wish to talk , share and like to be with. Get out of your reserved nature. Be the person everyone wants to. No matter how much problems you are into but don't let anyone know with that charming face , so that others receive vibes of positivity from you.

3) Always respect your parents. Give them the position and love they deserve , throughout your life. They might get angry when they are even wrong , but you do not give wrong prompt reactions. Cause you know once they realise with time and stable mind , they will give you the most beautiful affection and care in this world.

4) Have patience at every step. Make wise decision. If you get stuck up , can't decide what to do , just leave everything  on the ALL MIGHTY. Just say I Surrender. Trust me you ll feel relief. But do not be impatient and also do not give immediate reactions, cause A moment of patience in the moment of anger or sadness , can save you from loads of regretful moments.

5) When you decide to do something ,means once you decide to take a certain path in your life, just don't affect yourselves with failures. You just give your best and do not worry about the results. Just make sure that there should not be a time where you doubt on your preparation or the hardwork done, cause this will make you give your best shot. And then do not worry with outcomes , cause GOD will automatically lead you towards HIS desired directions. DO NOT GIVE UP.

6) Gift a smile. Just do good with others and for others. Spread happiness in this cruel world and be the symbol of love for everyone. Don't hurt anyone. Do not treat anyone as stranger and help others as much as you can. Do not allow your mind to discriminate between poor and rich, animals or human beings , just help everyone. It is definite and true that what you do, comes back to you.

7) Try to get the hidden intentions of others. Cause when you know about intentions of others, you automatically understand what he/she wants to display. This will clear all the misunderstandings when you just make yourself stand in other's position and mind. 

8) Keep yourself fit and healthy both physically and mentally. This is a major fact of bringing positivity in oneself. Take good care of your health cause you don't live only for yourself but for your close ones too.

9) Be any kind of relationship : Mother and child; Best friends: Husband and wife; Sister and Brother; Boyfriend and Girlfriend or any , do not let the love ,care and affection go away with time and/or distance. Diseases like communication gap, hesitation to initiate the talk, etc brings that unwanted fadeness and misunderstandings out of nowhere into those beautiful bonds. Just do not stop bringing those efforts to increase love in it , even when your partner is not able to. 

10) If you have a dream, chase it. If you are passionate about something , do not leave it. Just do all those things you love to do and you get happy to do,  where only one condition exists that it should not harm others and yourself too .

LOVE ; ARRANGE or ARRANGED LOVE

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Aaj ka topic thoda alag hoga, kyunki kayi dino se ek baat man main thi socha use likh dun aur mujhe khushi hogi agar aap bhi apna view is baare main batayein. And most importantly, this post is not meant to disturb or hurt anyone, so kindly spare me if you felt anything offended. 

Love marriage is better or arrange? Ye question aisa hai ki ismain barabar ke samarthak honge kyunki is question ke answer main har ek ka nazariya uski situation ke hisaab se banta hai. Pr main thoda alag sochta hun. Aisa nahi ki main love marriage ke khilaaf hun ya arrange marriage ke support mein, lekin mujhe ek cheez boht khatakti hai. Let me show you my point with an example.

Do dost school main aise stage pr aajate hai jahan un dono ko ek doosre ke liye liking aati hai.Fir yeh rishta college tk chlta hai aur dono ke relation main with time love growth hoti hai , and they have already decided in their mind ki bs isi ke saath apni life aage leke jaani hai. Lekin un dono ke man main vahi common dar hota hai ki kya unke parents maanenge ya isse badha sawaal ki kya unme itni himmat hai ki voh apne parents ko bata bhi paaye. Ab yahan situation ban jaati hai. Jaise ki with advanced time kuch parents are comfortable and provide support to their children for having good and healthy future with their decided partners. Bachche khush. Bachchon ke dost khush. Happy parents. Happy life. Ab yahi doosri situation ki parents are not comfortable and scared for their children's future. And now they decide ki unke bachchon ki arrange marriage kara di jaye.  Yahan yahan hai mujhe dikkat.

Main kisi ko disrespect nahi krna chahta pr un parents ko poochna chata hun ki aap apne bache ki zindagi ek anjaan ke haath main dene ko tayar ho jisko aapne sirf apne family links ki vajah se, 1-2

meeting main hi select krliya raazi hogye, lekin aapke bachche ne jiske saath apne kitne saal khushi se bitaaye jisko lekar aapka bachcha secure feel krta hai aur khush hai, us choice pr aapko doubt hai yaa apko manzoor nahi? Mai maan skta hun ki aap family links pr trust factor dikha aur apni society mein hi rishta krne ki chah mein arrange marriage pr zyada vishwas krte ho. Pr jaise aapko love marriage pr vishwas nahi , kya aise aapke paas guarantee hai ki voh aapka arrange marriage ka faisla bhi kaamyaab hoga?

Main yeh nahi kehta ki isse har ek ko  choot mil jaaye ki nadaani mein bina soojh smjh ke immature age main bahche pyaar kr baithe. Nahi itni restrictions aur akal honi chahiye ki har cheez ki sahi umar aur sahi wakt hota hai. Pr main iske saath bhi nahi ki parents ki different thinking ki vajah se bachche joh ek doosre ke saath khush hai , voh apne parents ke saath apni khushi hi na share kr paaye. RAB karam kare aisa na ho lekin aisi situations main ya toh bachche bhaag kr shaadi krne ka galat kadam uthate hai bs us dar ki vajah se ki parents maanenge nahi ya parents arrange marriage kara ke 4 zindagi ko kharab krte hai jisme un dono bachchon ke new partners ke saath unhe voh pyaar ka ehsaas nahi rehta joh ek doosre ke saath tha.

Meri bs ek hi chahat hai ki chahe arrange marriage ho ya love marriage mujhe kisi se dikkat nahi bs ek request sbse ki arrange marriage mein, parents dono bachchon ko aaps main thoda tym spend krne ko de taaki voh ek doosre ko smjh ske. Ek doosre ke saath bitaaye 2-3 months main hi smjh aajaega ki dono khush hai ya nahi and this will result in a good future. Aur rahi baat love marriage ki toh parents bachchon ko aisi seekh de ki bachche galat age main galat kadam na uthaye aur bachche itne comfortable ho ki voh apne parents ke saath yeh important life decision share kr paaye. Aur unke support ke saath apne future ko happily secure kr ske, where parents again play a major role.

Bs parents ho ya bachche sab smjhdaari se faisla le aur us rishte ko samay dekr smjhe kyunki shaadi main keval do log nahi do parivaar ek doosre se judhte hai.

Sab khush rahe aur RAB G ka karam sab pr bana rahe yahi dua hai. Maafi kuch galat kaha ho toh.

RAB HI SAB HAI

Apka Vishwas dagmaga sakta hai , UNKA karam nahi

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Ek baar do behen hoti hai jinki shaadi ko kayi saal beet jaate hai pr dono ke yahan koi bachcha nahi hota. Baba fakeer ke paas dono salaam krne jaate is mansha se ki RAB G se dua kr UNKI blessings maangenge. Baba fakeer ke paas RAB G dwara di gayi blessings hoti hai ki voh aage zaroorat mand bachchon ki maddad kr ske. Dono beheno ki arz pr Baba fakeer dono ko hi ek-ek khajoor dete hue farmate hai ki aap inhe kha lena , aane vale saal mai dono ke yahan bachcha hoga. Choti behen unka kehna maan khajoor kha leti hai , pr badhi behen sochti hai ki vaise kilo kilo khajoor kha leti koi bachcha nhi hota , is ek khajor se kya hoga aur yeh kehkr voh raste main ek padhe ek pathar k paas rkh jaati hai.

Saal beet jata hai aur vahi hai ki choti behen ke yahan bachcha hojata hai pr badhi behen ke yahan nhi. Boht pareshan aur dukhi ho, Baba fakeer ke paas jaate hai. Baba fakeer poochte hai badhi behen se ki aapki jholi kyu khali , aapne khajoor nahi khaayi. Maafi mangte hue kehti hai ki maine gustaakhi kr aapki baat nhi maani. Baba fakeer poochte ki kya aapo yaad hai aapne voh khajoor kaha rakhi thi toh vahi jaao aapko aapki chahat vahi mil jaaegi. Aur voh usi pathar ke paas jaakr dekhti hai toh ek nanha sa bachcha muh main ungli liya hua padha hota hai . Fat se gale laga kr bhaagti hui Baba fakeer ke paas aakr UNKA shukriya krti hai.



Ab is kahani ko padhte hue aap zaroor sochre hoge ki yeh sab fiction hai sirf kitaabi hai pr is khaani se joh sbse zaroori cheez smjhni vaali hai voh yeh hai ki RAB G pr vishwas aapka kis ad tak hai isi pr kaayam rehta hai ki aapke saath kya hoga, kyunki VOH toh har pal aapka khyaal rakh re hai aur aapke saah hai ab yeh toh aap pr hai ki aap UNPR kab apna vishwas laa skte ho. Vishwas se mtlb hai ki khud ko UNPR poora kurbaan krdena, fir bhale koi bhi situation kyu na ho bs surrender krdo. Let him decide cause he has the best solution.


In sab kahaniyon se maksat sirf ek hai ki jeevan main pareshaaniya khatam nahi hogi aur agr aapne un pareshaaniyon main khud ko dubo diya toh zindagi kya jeeyoge. Asli sukh aur sukoon sirf RAB G ke charno mai hai . UNSE hi khud ko poora jodhe rakho kyunki sirf VOHI hai joh dono jahan main aapke saath hai aur voh bhi har pal. 

Bhoolna nahi ki.......

RAB HI SAB HAI 

MAA aur PAPA

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MAA

Is duniya main RAB G ki sbse badhi blessings kisi bhi bachche ke liye uski maa hai. Kamaal hai na joh maa 9 maheene tk apne bachche ko apne pet main sambhaal kr rakhti hai , vohi maa apne bahche ke paida hone se lekar jab tk zinda hai tb tk uska khyaal rakhti hai. Jab bachcha chota hota hai toh use smjh nahi hoti voh poora apni maa pr dependent rehta hai. Chalna , bolna , padhna , likhna , koodna sab voh usi se seekhta hai. Yeh kehna galat nahi hoga ki ek bachcha sabse zyada samay apni maa ke saath bitata hai isiliye uska svabhaav poora nahi pr lgbhag unhi ke jaisa bn jaata hai. Bachcha bhale kisi bhi umar main ho lekin apni maa ke liye voh uska bachcha hi rehta hai. Pr kitna ajeeb hai na ki badhe hote hote maa ki ehmiyat kam hoti jaati hai. Mtlb ki life main dost aajate hai fir life partner se rishta bandh jaata hai aur fir bachche hote hai, jiski vajah se shyd kahi na kahi hamesha ek kami si mehsoos hoti hai ki maa ko voh pyaar de na paaya joh har maa ne apni poori life apne bahche se chaha. Aur us bahche ko yeh kab realise hota hai jab uska apna bahcha hojata hai. Ek maa apni poori life apne bahchon ko pyaar hi deti hai aur badle main kuch nahi maangti bs akal ho toh smjh aajaega ki use bhi vahi pyaar hi chahiye hota hai. Pr ham jyada hi smjhdaar hojaate hai badhe hokr , ki doston ke saath late bahar rehte hai pr maa ne phone krke pooch liya late kyu toh uspe cheek dete hai. Ya girlfriend or wife ke saath shopping pr ya movie ke liye chale gaye , ghr pr batana bhool gaye aur dinner saath main krne ke liye maa wait krti rahi. Boht asaan hai yeh baatein kehna pr fir bhi maa ki asli ehmiyat aaj tk koi na smjh paaya hai na hi use smjhaaya jaa skta hai kyunki voh pyaar hai hi itna paak ki yuhi thoda maa ko RAB se relate kiya gaya. Ek maa kbhi apne bahche pr haar nahi skti, ar badhe hojaane ke baad bhi jab bimaar padh jao to us maa ko hi yaad kiya jaata hai kyunki use hi maloom kya hai sahi ilaaj. Salaam hai us har maa ko jisne itna pyaar is duniya main uske har bahche ko diya aur shukriya hai us RAB ka jinhone use banaya aur dua hai UNSE ki voh har maa ko sada sahisalamat rakhe, aur har bachche ko uski maa ke saath rehne ki blessings de ,uska pyaar paane ka sukh pradaan kre aur us maa ki ehmiyat smjhne ki sadbuddhi bakshe voh bhi sahi samay pr.

PAPA

Shyd is duniya main sbse underestimated ya less valued insaan koi hoga toh voh hai PAPA. Kyunki papa hamesha apne parivaar ki dekh baal ke liye , sukh ke liye mehnat main lage rehte hai. Aur bachchon ki har khwaaish ko poori krne ke liye jee jaan laga dete hai. Shyd yeh ek badha reason hai ki generally bachchon ka attachment unke father se kam hota hai in comparison to mother. Lekin yeh fact ek dam sach hai ki voh maa bhi apne pati ki vajah se hi khud ko aur apne bachchon ko secure feel krti hai. Papa poore ghr ki responsibility aur saari major tensions akele jhel lete hai bina kuch kisi ko bataye aur itne strong hote hai ki chehre pr dikhate bhi nahi. Aur hasi ki baat yeh hai ki bahcha badhe hote hote jahan maa ki ehmiyat kam aakne lgta hai, vahi papa ko toh kuch smjhta hi nahi. Aaj ke daur main yeh boht badha sach hai ki us maa ke liye hamesha uska pati hi stand krta hai aur saath deta hai , sale nikamme bachche bhi unhe chod dete hai. Maa jahan bahchon ke liye emotional strength and caring support hoti hai vahi father bachchon ke liye securing guardian , wish fulfiller aur mental strength bante hai. He teaches and makes us strong for how to deal with the outside world. Aur har bahche ko maloom hai ki uske papa hai uske saath tabhi jab kisi ke saath baat bigde na toh bachche aps main dhamki dete hai ki main apne papa ko bataunga. Hehe. Jis tarah maa RAB ka roop hai usi tarah papa bhi UNHI ka roop hai kyunki maa aur papa ek hai alag nahi aur meri dua hai ki har bachche ko uske papa ka saath and guidance and that secure caring strenghtful support mile and UNKE karam se sbhi papa har pal sahi salamat rahe aur strong rahe.

Bs yaar apne maa papa ki ehmiyat sahi samay pr smjh lo aur bhale kuch bhi unhe kabhi akela nahi chodna kyunki aaj bhi agr tumhein koi tension hoti hai toh sbse pehle vohi aaenge tumhara saath dene. Khush raho aur RAB G har maa papa pr apna karam banaye rakhna and unhe vohi deserving pyaar dilwaana joh unhone apne bachchon ko bina kisi condition ke diya.

Pyaar ho toh sirf RAB se

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Ek badhi hi dilchasp kahaani sunne ko mili jisne man moh liya. Ek insaan RAB G se behad pyaar krta aur poora din UNHI ki pooja krne main UNKI seva krne main laga rehta . Uske Vishwas aur pyaar ki pareeksha lene ke liye RAB G ne ek khel racha. Ek din ek aisi list nikli jisme dikhaya gaya un logon ka naam joh RAB G se boht pyaar krte hai aur jinke liye RAB hi sab hai. Voh insaan khush ho jaata hai ki is list main toh mera naam zaroor hoga. Upar se neeche tak dekhta hai pr use apna naam hi nazar nahi aata. Boht niraash hojata hai aur krodhit hojata hai ki mere liye AAP sab ho pr AAPKO main is kaabil lagta hi nahi. Mere pyaar , bhakti ya seva main konsi kami reh gyi thi. Boht dukhi ho jaata hai. Kisi se baat nahi krta. 

Fir thode din baad ek list nikalti hai jisme dikhaya jaata hai un logon ka naam jinse RAB G boht zyada pyaar krte hai. Ab us insaan ko pata chlta hai iske baare main toh voh dukhi aur naraaz man se list ko dekhne hi nahi jaata hai. Aise main uske paas 4-5 log aate hai aur use batate hai ki vaah kya kismat paayi hai aapne  ki aapka naam is list main sabse pehle. Yeh sunke hairan hojata hai aur fir RAB G se maafi maangta hai ki, usne apne pyaar aur vishwas main, sirf ek dikhaave ki cheez se behak kr, shak kiya aur shukriya bhi kiya ki RAB G ne use is kaabil smjha aur uske pyaar ko is had tak apnaaya.

Is par RAB G farmaate hai, ki MAIN nahi kehta tum mujhmain vishwas kro ya mujhse pyaar kro lekin agr krte ho toh fir usme koi kami nahi honi chahiye, kabhi bhi kahi bhi shak ki gunjaaish nahi honi chahiye. Aur sach bhi hai ki is duniya main agr kahi asli sukoon hai toh sirf RAB G ke pyaar main. Duniya main koi aapke saath rahe na rahe, aapka saath de na de , pr RAB G har pal aapke saath rehte hai aur  aapka khyaal rakhte hai. Bs UNSE dua yahi kro ki sab AAPKE  havale hai aur sab kuch AAPKI marzi ke mutaabik hi ho , bs AAP hamein APMA pyaar pradaan kre aur hamein APNE charno main har pal har saans lagaaye rakhein.

Voh MAALIK-E-DO-JAHAAN hai , likhi hui takdeer bhi badal skte hai , aur voh RAB hai isiliye karishmein krte hai bs ham insaano ko mehsoos aur believe nahi hota ki na jaane kab kaise voh hamein musoobiton se bacha lete hai aur toh aur dukh ko ham tak pahunchne bhi nahi dete hai. Aap bs achche karam kro RAB G mein atoot vishwas rakho aur UNSE beimtehaan mohabbat kro, daava hai mera ki sukh aur sukoon jhak maarke aapke paas aaegi kyunki.........

RAB HI SAB HAI 

RAB G's Blessings, Karam anusar

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Ek baar ek insaan ne RAB G se shikayat kari ki AAPKE decisions sahi nahi hote kyunki AAP sabke saath sahi insaaf nahi krte. AAPKE bachche takleef main hote hai , unhe AAPKE karam ki zaroorat hoti hai aur AAP unki pareshaaniyon ka hal boht der se krte ho ki mayoos hokr sab haar maan lete hai. 

Is par RAB G us insaan ko kehte hai ki ab joh hoga use tu chup chap dekhega aur kuch bolega nahi.

Saamne dikhayi deta hai ki ek cow ka pair keechad main fas jaata hai toh ek chor (thief) aakr uski maddad krta hai aur keechad se uska pair nikal deta hai . Fir thodi der baad ek cow ka pair keechad main fas jaata hai aur is baar uski maddad krne ek saadhu aata hai.

CHOR aur SAADHU dono hi thodi door chlte hai toh CHOR ko koode ke dher main ek sone(gold) ki potli milti hai jisse voh khush. Aur vahi SADHU ko chlte hue pair main ek keel chubh jaata hai.

Ab yeh sab dekh voh insaan vyaakul ho uthta hai ki aisa kyu hua ki CHOR jisne poora jeevan bure karam hi kiye , choriyan kr logon ko pareshaan kiya , use sone ki potli ka inaam kyu ; Aur doosri or SAADHU jisne aajeevan RAB G ka naam japa achche karam kiye seva kri , use keel chubha kr saza di jabki dono ne ek jaisa hi karam kiya.

Itni behchaini ke saath usne RAB G pr fir shikayat krte hue poocha ki kyu aisi naainsaafi kri, kyu CHOR aur SAADHU ko unke karmo ka sahi fal nahi mila?

Ispr RAB G farmate hai ki yahi tumhari cheezon ko smjhna ka galat nazariya tumhare man main basi patience aur vishwas ko hilata hai. Farmate hai ki us CHOR ki kismat main raja banna likha tha. Usne jeevan bhar bure kaam kiye isiliye cow ki maddad kr achcha karam krne pr use sirf sone ki potli mili. Vahi SAADHU ke kismat main faasi likhi thi. Uske achche krmo ki vajah se aur cow ki maddad kr ek aur achcha karam krne se , use sirf ek choti si keel chubho kr faasi se bacha liya.

RAB G ki nazaron se koi nahi bach skta VOH sab jaante hai kyunki VOH RAB hai . Kabhi na kabhi kaise na kaise krke aapko aapke karmo ka fal zaroor milega. Ab yeh aap pr depend krta hai ki aap apna account kin krmo se bharte ho. VOH Dono jahan ke MAALIK hai , VOH likhi hui takdeer bhi badal skte hai. Bs aapke haath main hai ki aap RAB G pr vishwas krte ho ya nahi ; aur kya aapmein voh sabar hai ki UNKI decided raah pr aap bina kisi tension aur shak se chl skte ho ya nahi.

Agr  aapne RAB G pr sab kuch saump diya hai toh bhool jao aapke saath kya hoga . Aap sirf karam achche kro aur RAB G ke decisions pr vishwas rakho kyunki.....

RAB HI SAB HAI

 

PYAAR; Mazaak hai kya?

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Kise kehte hai PYAAR? Kaise maloom padhta hai ki hamein hamara PYAAR mil gya? PYAAR ki asli paribhasha hai kya? Aaj tk iska jawab na kisi ko smjh aaya aur na hi ise smjhaya jaa skta hai. Kyunki PYAAR ek ehsaas hai jise sirf mehsoos kiya jaa skta hai. Isme koi science ya logic nahi bhara ki paper pr iski definition utaar kr sbko sikhaayi jaaye. Yeh sab muh boli baatein sbko maloom hai lekin fir bhi aaj bhi PYAAR main dokha khaye logon ki ginti kam nahi hui.Ek anjaan insaan se interaction hui. Thode samay sath uthne baithne se dosti hui. Dheere dheere dosti aur gehri hone ki jis vajah se ek doosre ki taraf feelings aane lagi. Ab batane main hichkichahat hui ki kayi dosti bhi khatam na hojaaye . Lekin fir bhi dono ko vibes aati rahi ki yeh rista dosti se aage hai. Fir ek ne himmat kri aur apne dil ki baat saamne rakhi , aur saamne vale ne use kabool kr is rishte ko PYAAR ka naam diya. Yahi hota hai na ? Areh aage ki kahani bhi toh bachi hai. Thoda samay beet ta hai is rishte ko , PYAAR bhari baatein hoti hai , har moment boht sundr lgta hai , aadat ban jaate hai ek doosre ki. Ab fir samay beet ta hai toh insecurities naamak shbd ki entrance hoti hai arthat JALAN. Ladke ki best female friend se aur ladki ka best male friend se ldki aur ladke ko respectively jalan hone lgti ya kuch bhi keh lo ki y he/she is spending more of time with them. Mind main ajeeb se questions umadne lgte hai ki does he genuinly love me , ki does she really have feelings for me . AM I BEING CHEATED? Nahi nahi jyada soch ri hun. I love her and i TRUST ki she also loves me. 

Fir joh in sab vehemo se ya ek doosre pr shak se paar paa lete hai yaa kahu ki relation main aaye sabhi challenges ko strongly paar krlete hai , voh future main apna relation behad khoobsurt position pr paate hai. And touchwood for all those beautiful love full relation. Lekin joh in sb jhamelo main khud ki soch pr control kho baith te hai , unka hojata hai BREAKUP. Lo mil gyi logon ko chugliyan. Toota hua ashik ban kr , so called broken heart lekr sirf ek hi sawal khud se krte rehna ki MERI KYA GALTI THI? Meri feelings toh genuine thi. Fir kuch isse ubhar jate hai with time and kuch yahi soch rakh kr ki "saare ladke ek jaise hote hai" , achche logon ka bhi patta kaat dete hai.

Kitni asaani se likh keh raha hai yeh, isne kabhi experience nahi kiya na , tb pata lagega kaisa lgta hai. Yahi soch re honge aap sab. Sorry i dont mean to hurt you . Lekin PYAAR kya mazaak hai?

PYAAR sirf ek baar hota hai. Jahan PYAAR mtlb vahan 100% TRUST , toh fir shak ki gunjaaish kyu? Aap kyu kisi ko itna hak dedete ho ki last main aap hi khud ko hurt hote hue paao. Aapko maloom hai ki aapko agr kisi se pyaar hua to voh genuine hoga, toh kyu aap itne weak padh jaate ho ki wrong person ke haath apne dil ko hi thama diya. Aaj aise kahi honge jinke saath logon ne cheat kiya , jinke PYAAR ki kadar nahi kri, aur unhi logon ne khud ko mayoos rakh kr , lagataar rokr kitni takleef pahunchayi. KYU? Maana PYAAR ki koi surat nahi lekin is rishte main aane se pehle socho toh sahi ki kya yeh sahi hai mere liye , ki kya mere aur mere pyaar ki kadar kri jaaegi , ki kya yeh MATURE LOVE hai. 

Hamesha insaan ki neeyat galat ya sahi hoti hai joh unhe achche aur bure categories main daalta hai . Toh aap khud ko itna strong banao ki aap yeh sensitive life based decision boht maturity ke saath le paao taaki ant main aapko na bhuktna padhe. Aur ek baat to sure hai ki agr aap kisi ke saath galat krte ho toh aapko bhi return main same ya usse bhi zyada worst face krne ko milega , kyunki VOH hai na , UNKE dar par achche krmo ka sundr fal aur bure krmo ki saza zaroor milti hai , koi bach nahi skta . 

Conclusion main ek hi baat hai kehne ko ki Aap apna aur apne dil ka boht zyada khyaal rakho aapke APNO ke liye and.....

DO FOLLOW YOUR HEART , BUT ALWAYS TAKE ALONG YOUR MIND WITH YOU  

VISHWAS sang SHUKRIYA

Dilon Ki Kahaani Labzon Ki Zubaani 

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Ek insaan registaan main boht der se bhatak raha. Paani bhi khatam hogya aur pyaas ke maare jaan nikl rahi. Boht der chlne ke baad , almost marne ki halat main ek kuan nazar aaya . Bhaagta hua kuen ke paas gya , par fir niraash hogya. Kua main paani ka level boht kam aur paani nikalne ke liye koi cheez dhoondhta hai toh milti nahi. Udaas hokr baith gya. 

Itni der main ek  hiran (deer) kuen ke paas akr apna muh hi sirf aage krta hai aur paani ka level khud b khud upr aajata hai. Use paani peete dekh , voh insaan rone lgta hai aur upar dekh kr kosta hai ki maine konsa gunah kiya tha joh mujhe pani peene ki ijaazat nahi mili.

Ispr ek awaaz aayi ki registan main jahan paani ka naamo nishan nahi vahan tujhe kuan dediya , pr vahan pahunch kr bhi tu paani nikalne ki cheez khojne main laga hua aur na milne pr niraash hokr haar maan li. EK BAAR HAATH TOH AAGE BADHATA. 

Yeh baat sunkr maafi mangte hue UNKA shukriya kr paani se apni pyaas bhujayi aur UNKE pyaar se apne jeevan ki .

Aisa aksr hota hai ki behad mushkil dor se guzarte hue ham haar maan lete hai aur galat kadam uthate hai khud ko aur apne kareebe logon ko takleef dekr. Lekin yeh bhool jaate hai ki agr ham itne pareshaan hai toh UNHE apne bachon ki haalat dekh kr pareshaani nahi hoti hogi kya? VOH RAB hai VOH sab jaante hai. Hamein bs apni pareshaani ke aage kuch nazar ni aata aur jab ham us bure wakt ke daur ke antim palon main hote hai, jab khushiyon se bhara samay bs ek ya do kadam ki doori pr hota hai  , bs tabhi haar maan jaate hai. 

Boht zaroori hai apne VISHWAS ko hamesha kayam rakhna kyunki UNKE karam se hi bure wakt se chutkara  aur achche palon ki khushiyan naseeb hongi. 

Kuch bhi ho kabhi haar nahi maanni chahiye. Aap jahan tk pahunche ho usme aapki lagan aur UNKA karam boht zyada hai , toh use maddenazar rakhte hai khud main belief hona behad zaroori hai. Agr do pal niraash ke, boht saare khushiyon ke palon main aa bhi jaaye toh usse tootna kyu , blki un palon main aap khud ko aur strong banao. Ek baat to confirm hai ki agr aapke karam achche hai to aapke saath kabhi bura nahi hoga. Haan bhaari samay shyd aajaye lekin, UNKE karam se VOH aapki har pal raksha krte hai aapka dhyaan rakhte hai aur voh bhaari samay kab nikl jaaega pata bhi ni chalega.

Bs har pal UNKA shukriya krte jaao ,khud main believe kro, UNMEIN vishwas rakho kyunki........

RAB HI SAB HAI 

KHUSHIYAN ; Neither Consistent Nor Permanent

Dilon Ki Kahaani Labzon Ki Zubaani 

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Kisi ne ek baar sawal kiya ki khushiyan permanent kyu nahi hoti. Kyu sirf do pal ki khushi ke baad man firse pareshaan hojata hai. Boht hi random baat hai yeh pr dhyaan se smjhi jaye to padhne main maza aaega. Jisne yeh sawal kiya tha, use aksr shikayat rehti thi ki jinke saath kuch pal bita kr achcha lgta tha kuch samay baad hi unka koi ata pata nahi. Jinhone vaade kiye saath rehne ke , unse kab rishta khud b khud anjaan hogya pta hi na chala. Toh kyu kisi ke saath rehkr milti khushiyon main consistency nahi hai. Jis din yeh baat uthi , usi din ek incidence maine experience kiya jisse main is baat ko relate kr paya.

Toh kya hua ki I have a hobby of feeding dogs or animals wherever possible through biscuits, milk, bread or so. Toh generally when i go to park right in front of my house, then i take along packets of biscuits for dogs. Maine dekha ki ek female dog ne puppies ko birth diya hota hai jise i mostly provide food. Toh achcha laga dekh ke jab puppies ko voh feed krti hai. Aise hi usi din main busicuits lejana bhool gya. When i reached park , then i realised ki aaj reh gya. Then what i saw was ki unmain se ek puppy ko kisi doosre animal ne leg pr kaata hua tha , which was appearing a gehra zakham. Aur usi zakham pr ek Uncle bandage laga rahe the . I saw and was very happy.

Ab aap sbko lagega yeh kya likha hai smjh hi ni aaya. How this incidence can relate to topic mentioned in this post.

Jis female dog ko mujhse biscuits (khushiyan) milre the to further feed her babies , use ek din mujhse voh nahi mila lekin usi din ek Uncle ne uske bachche ke gehre zakham pr marham (khushiyan) laga diya.

Yeh baat shyd ajeeb lagegi smjhne main , shyd kya confirm lagegi. Lekin iske peeche chipa joh message hai voh smjh aajaye toh mera mksat poora. Khushiyon ka koi confirm samay nahi hota, na hi jyada der tk tikti hai. Jinke saath kuch pal bita kr lagta hai ki ab hamari khushiyon ka zariya yahi hai, kuch samay baad vahi anjaan ban jaate hai. Khush rehne ke liye hamein hi apna nazariya aisa banana hoga jisse ham har situation main khush reh ske. Yaani hamein khud un khushiyon ko dhoondhna hoga joh shyd ham dukhi hokr gava dete hai ya nazarandaaz krdete hai. Joh present main chal raha hai use RAB G ka decision maankr , khush rehne ki koshish krni chahiye. Haanji bilkul sahi socha aapne ki yeh kehna asaan hai aur krna behad mushkil. Lekin khushiyon pr itna dependent nahi hona chahiye ki gam aane pr hosla toot jaaye . Blki khud ko aur apno ko sambhaalne ke liye un unwanted dukh bhari situation main bhi khush rehne ki vajah dhoondhni chahiye taaki aap apno ke liye real strength ban paao.

Khushiyan agr permanent hai , Khushiyan agr consistent hai toh sirf aur sirf RAB G ke charno main. Asli sukoon sirf UNKE saath se hi mil skta hai. Jisne UNKO paa liya usne sab paa liya. Jisne UNKO apne dil main basa liya usne sab haasil krliya bs UNSE dua kro ki UNKA karam sada bana rahe aur joh UNHE manzoor VOH vahi kre, vahi best hai asli khushi UNHI ke karam se milegi kyunki.........

RAB HI SAB HAI

GOD'S WAY = BEST WAY

Dilon Ki Kahaani Labzon Ki Zubaani 

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RAB G ne ham sabke liye boht hi achcha socha hua hai joh hamare liye best hai, par kya karein ham bevakoof aur gunhagaaron main akal aur patience to hai hi ni .

Aaj ki kahani ek insaan ke upr hai jisne boht mehnat aur lagan ke saath LAWYER banne ki padhayi kri. Din raat poori shiddat ke saath bs man main thaan li ki LAWYER banna hi hai. Time aata hai uska  exam dene ka, jiske result main pata lagta hai ki kuch numbers se voh reh gya. Boht niraash hojata hai. Fir himmat juta kar , fir usi lagan mehnat ke saath apni galtiyon se seekhte hue exam dene jaata hai. Result aata hai toh fir maloom padhta hai ki is baar bhi baat nahi ban paayi. Toot jaata hai bilkul, kare toh kare kya. Boht negative hojata hai man hi man. Apne upr belief confidence , RAB G par vishwas sab kam hote dekhta hai. 

Aise hi kisi din dekhta hai ki JUDGE banne ke liye exam nikla hai jiski studies requirement lagbhag same hoti hai and moreover use extra knowledge bhi hoti kyunki he had that will to excel in this field. Man main sochta hai ki LAWYER toh ban ni paaya JUDGE kahan se ban paaunga, pr fir bhi bina man ke exam dedeta hai . Aur result main sab clear. He gets qualified to serve as JUDGE. Ab man main sochta hai ki main khush ho ya kya? Kahan main LAWYER banne ke liye itni mehnat krra tha aur kaha JUDGE ki post ke liye qualify hogya.

RAB G farmaate hai ki MUJHE achchi tarah maloom hai kise kab kya aur kitna dena hai, bs agar MUJHMEIN vishwas rakhte ho toh khud main sabar rakho aur sahi samay ka intezaar kro. VOH likhi hui takdeer bhi badal skte hai. Ab kahan ek insaan LAYWER banne ke liye dua maangta raha  aur kaha RAB G ne use direct JUDGE bana diya. Niraash hone se kisi cheez ka hal nahi nikalta pr kya kare ham joh present main chalta hai usi ke maddenazar khush ya dukhi hojate hai. Lekin yeh bhool jaate hai ki future toh UNHE hi maloom hai.

Ek badha hi pyaara sher yaad aaya,

Jitna diya SARKAR ne mujhko, utni toh meri aukat hi nahi,

Yeh toh karam hai UNKA , varna mujhmein toh aisi koi baat hi nahi.

Pareshaani main khud ko mentally ya emotionally takleef dena is not the solution. Bs yeh jaan lo ki joh raah UNHONE sochi hai aapke liye vahi best hai and usi par chalkr aap apni manzil tk pahunch skte ho. Toh bs isiliye arz aur dua UNSE yahi kro ki joh AAPKO manzoor hamesha vahi ho kyunki...........

RAB HI SAB HAI

BEST FRIENDS , CONDITION APPLIED ?

Dilon Ki Kahaani Labzon Ki Zubaani 

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A boy and a girl can never be BEST FRIENDS. Saalon se chalti aari yeh soch mujhe boht khatakti hai. Toh isiliye aaj mera saval yahi hai ki WHY SO? 

First of all i am sorry if any of my thought hurts the reader or someone getting objected , but there are no such wrong intentions as these are the genuine facts which comes into my mind and i wish to share it with you guys.

So lets start.

Aksar suna hoga logon ko bolte hue ki ek ladka aur ek ladki kabhi bhi BEST FRIENDS nahi ho skte. Kisi na kisi side se kabhi na kabhi voh feelings aa hi jaati hai. Pr aisa kyu?? Kya sachi dosti gender ya sex dekh ke hi kari jaati hai , ya yeh kahu ki dil kisi ko apna sachcha yaar maanne lagta hai toh usse pehle dimaag use kehta hai ki ruk jaa voh doosre gender ka hai. Yeh sab padh ke boht ajeeb lag raha hoga ki kya likhta hai yeh , pr ek baar thoda gaur se sochna is baare main. This has been my personal life experience too.

BEST FRIENDS, yeh joh rishta hai na sbse pehle iski ehmiyat aur ismein basa pyaar shyd hi shbdon main samjhaya ja ske kyunki yeh sbse khoobsurat ehsaas hai. Aur aap mein se jin jin ko bhi RAB G ne in sundar rishto se nawaza hai like me, unko dhero saari badhaaiyan kyunki yeh rishte kismat waalon ko hi milte hai. 

Kon hai BEST FRIEND? Shyd voh joh bina kuch kahe ya bina kuch sune samjh jaata hai ki aap pareshaan ho. Shyd voh jiske hone se hi jiski maujoodgi se hi aap complete feel krte ho. Shyd voh jiski ek jhappi saare gam bhula deti hai. Shyd voh jispr APNO se bhi zyada hak jataya jaata hai. Shyd voh joh aapki dua main automatically shaamil hojata hai. Shyd voh jiske bina aap jeene ka soch bhi ni sakte. Agr yeh rishta itna hi khoobsurat hai, toh laazmi hai ki is rishte main do dil ek doosre se judte hai. Jab dilon ki buniyat pr bani is rishte main pyaar ki khoobsurat imaarte tikti hai toh kaise koi keh skta hai ki nahi ek ladka aur ek ladki kabhi bhi BEST FRIENDS nahi ho skte. Kyu aaj bhi agr ek ladka ladki ko saath dekh liya jaaye toh bs dimaag main pehla thought aata hai ki they might be having an affair. Mtlb na jaan na pehchaan bina mtlb ke bana li judgement on anjaan insaans. Jokes apart, why there is such a mentality which dont allow a girl and a boy to share a beautiful and true  relation of FRIENDSHIP. 

This happens very often if i am not wrong, ki jab bhi do dost (ladka ladki) apni FRIENDSHIP ko strong and deep bane dekhte hai , wahi pr aas paas ke log (jinke saath uthna baithta hota hai) ki soch ka indirect pressure unpr padhta hai jis vajah se they dont feel comfortable in depicting their real bond. Meri soch main yeh bilkul galat hai kyunki main maanta hun dosti dil se hoti hai aur dil kabhi bhi kisi ki soorat ya gender ya race ya cast dekh kr kisi se pyaar nai krta ya kisi se dosti ka hath nahi badhata, blki use bas us dil se lagaav hota hai and then this goes long with both hearts becoming strength of each other.

Dosti ek aisa khoobsurat ehsaas hai joh har rishte main hai. Apka BEST FRIEND apka bhai, teacher, mother, father, driver, ladka , ladki , aapke pets , infact teddy bears koi bhi ho skta hai koi bhi kyunki dil sabko saaf aur sachchi nazron se dekhta hai. Yeh bhi true hai ki jis couple ka rishta BEST FRIENDS ban kr shuru hota hai voh boht long term and successful bhi jaata hai. But this is also true ki a girl feels real comfortable and secure with her male best friend. And those relations exists which are behad strong full of love.

Toh aaj aap apne har sachche dost ko special feel karane ke liye unhe bataye ki no matter what happens you will love  them for whole life and even beyond. 

SPECIAL LOVE TO MY BESTFRIENDS 

SABAR : Asli Imtehaan

Dilon Ki Kahaani Labzon Ki Zubaani 

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Yeh story sunne aur smjhne main kaafi ajeeb lagegi agr practical nazariye se socho ya logic dhoondhne niklo, lekin zaroorat yeh hai ki aap is kahani ke peeche chipe unkahe raaz ya unkahi baat  ko smjhne ki koshish krna. Thodi lambi hai pr ant tk padhna zaroor.

Ek baar ek insaan apni life se khoob pareshaan hokr RAB G ke paas jaata hai . Arz krta hai ki na mere paas apna ghr na karoobaar main barkat na bimaariyon se rahat aur na hi koi sukh , aakhir aisi zindagi jeene ka matlb hi kya. Apne aap main jaise sabar kho, takleefon se jhoojhta hua duniya chodne ki arz krta hai ki ab aur nahi jeeya jaata. RAB G uski parishaani sun use teen parchiyan dete hai, 1-2-3 . Farmaate hai tu fikr mat kr sab theek hoga Vishwas rakh sahi samay zaroor aaega. Abse tu aage kabhi bhi pareshaan hua ya jab bhi aise haalat aaye ki bs ab nahi jeeya jaara toh pehli parchi kholiyo. Samay beet ta hai uska kaarobar chlne lgta hai toh thodi rahat paata hai pr uski beemaariyan use had se zyada takleef deti hai jis vajah se uski zindagi main fir voh samay aata hai jahan uske jeene ki ichcha khatam si ho jaati hai. Fir voh pehle number ki parchi kholta hai jisme likha hota hai HAVE PATIENCE.

Apne man ko kaise bhi krke smbhaalta hai aur aage badhta hai. Samay ke saath uski beemariyan bhi RAB G ke karam se theek hoti hai jiske liye voh UNKA har pal shukriya krta hai. Lekin fir voh samay aata hai jahan uske apne ghr ki ichcha poori hoti na dekh paane ki vajah se khud ko niraash krta hai aur doosri parchi kholta hai . Uspr bhi likha hota hai HAVE PATIENCE.

Fir se apne Vishwas ko jagata hai aur aage badhta hai. Thode samay main apna ghr bhi bana leta hai pr ghr ko ghr banane vali family ka saath na hone ki vajah se khud ko akela paata hai aur dubara naa jeene ki chahat ko man main lekr teesre parchi kholta hai. Uspr likh hota hai AB ITNA SABAR KRLIYA HAI TOH THODA AUR KRLE.TU APNI MANZIL KE BOHT KAREEB HAI.

Yeh padh voh muskura deta hai aur RAB G se maafi maangte hue shukriya krta hai ki UNHONE hamesha apne karam se use sahi salamat rakha aur jeene ki himmat bakshi. Iske baad fir kabhi bhi bhale hi koi bhi situation kyu na ho , usne thaan li ab niraash nahi hoga aur naa hi apne Vishwas ko kabhi tootne dega. 

Ab is kahani main kayi cheezen hai smjhne vali.

Pehli, ki agr aap RAB G main vishwas rakhte ho toh khud main sabar rakho aur us sahi samay ka intezaar kro joh UNHONE aapke liye socha hai and decide kiya hai, and trust me voh samay aane pr aapko  khud b khud pata chal jaaega ki aapka sabar krna vaajib tha.

Doosri. khushiyan kabhi bhi permanent nahi hoti. Isiliye kaha jaata hai ki sukh dukh zindagi ka hissa hai aur hamein dono situation main sthir yaani stable rehna chahiye. Permanent khushi asli sukoon dil ka chain sirf aur sirf RAB G ke charno main hi hai, aur kahi nahi. 

Teesri, ki insaan ki ek khwaaish khatam hone se pehle hi doosri jag jaati hai joh poori na hone pr khud ko mayoos krdeta hai pr yeh nahi sochta ki uski pichle khwaaishein aur zarooratein bhi toh poori hui hai. Sabar rakhna boht zaroori hai.

Aur Aakhri, ham aksar apne haalaton se pareshaan hokr khud main haarkar mayoosi main galat kadam utha lete hai khud ko nuksaan pahunchane ka blki yeh nahi jaante ki almost galat samay kaat diya hai bs ab sukh bhari manzil behad  kareeb hai . Isiliye kabhi give up nahi krna chahiye.

Yeh sach hai ki jispr joh beet ti hai vohi face krta hai reality pareshaani usi ko jhelni padhti hai lekin yeh bhi sach hai ki sabar yaani patience ko kayam rakhna US SUNHERI SHAKTI main yaani RAB G main vishwas ke saath sbse zaroori fanda hai life ka, kyunki krna sab UNHONE hi hai UNHE hi sab maloom hai isiliye hamehsa khud ko khush rakhne ki vajah dhoondho aur sahi samay ka intezaar kro kyunkiiii.........

RAB HI SAB HAI

RAB G par ASHRIT

Dilon Ki Kahaani Labzon Ki Zubaani 

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Ek parivaar mai 4 married bhai hote hai. Family ki condition achchi hoti hai mtlb kisi cheez ki kami nahi hoti. 4 main se 3 bhai khoob mehnat kr kaarobar sambhalte hai. Lekin 1 bhai har samay sirf RAB G ke dhyaan main hi laga rehta hai. Voh RAB se pyaar krne ki vajah se karoobar main samay nahi bitata blki pooja paath main hi leen rehta hai. Boht VISHWAS rehta use hamesha RAB G pr. Lekin kaafi samay tk uska yeh bhartaav dekh kr , baaki 3 bhai uske khilaaf hojate hai. Unki wives ki soch ke saath voh bhi yahi sochte ki yeh sirf BHAGWAAN ke dhyaan main laga rehta hai, koi kaam nahi krta toh ham kyu iska kharcha uthaye. Ise khud mehnat krne ki zaroorat smjhni chahiye. Voh teeno uske paarivaarik hisse ka share dekr use alag kr dete hai. Voh fir apni wife ke saath jungle  ki kutiya main jaakr rehne lgta hai. Thoda samay beetne ke baad khaana aur rehne ka zaroori samaan dheere dheere khatam hote jaata hai. Uski wife bhi pareshaan hokr kehti hai ki aap kuch kaam kyu nahi krte , kya aise pooja paath krne se sab haasil ho jaata hai? Behad mayoosi ke saath voh jungle ki or chl deta hai. Ek jagah pr baith kr udaas man se RAB G se shikayat krta hai ki aisa kyu ho raha hai Yeh sila diya aapne mere vishwas aur pyaar ka. 

BHAGWAT GEETA main RAB G ne faramaya hua hai ki  JOH MUJHPR AASHRIT HAI (yaani dependent) USE KABHI KISI CHEEZ KI CHINTA KRNE KI ZAROORAT NAHI.

Voh bhai GEETA ko har wakt apne saath rakhta tha. Mayoosi aur udaasi se bhara pareshan bhai , RAB G se shikayat krta hai ki AAPNE JOH LIKHA VO JHOOTH HAI. Gusse main aakr voh ek kaale pathar se GEETA main likhi us line ko kala kr galt kadam uthata hai. Behad pareshaan hokar ghr vaapis aata hai aur dekhta hai ki dhero saara khana aur rehne jeene ka zaroori samaan uski aankho ke samne hota hai. Apni wife se poochta hai ki yeh sab kaha se aaya. Toh wife batati hai ki aapka koi dost aaya tha jisne kaha ki APNE PATI KO BATA DENA KI JISKE MUH PR USNE KAALIKH LAGAYI THI VOHI AAYA THA.

Yeh sab jaankr uski aankhon main aansu aajate hai aur voh RAB G ka shukriya kr unse maafi maangta hai ki usne apne vishwas pr doubt kiya aur gusse main galat kadam uthaya. Sath hi yeh bhi smjh jaata hai  ki mehnat krna bhi zaroori hai.

Now as a moral here are two facts we need to understand. One is total clear that we should never doubt on GOD and never ever complain for what bad is happening in our lives, as he knows everything and also knows  that whats best for us. We just need to trust HIM , keep our faith always alive along with patience and thanks HIM for everything.

And the other important point to understand with this story is that we should not run away from our responsibilities or should not leave the hardwork to not only earn living but also respect.

Combining both these, we can say that TRUST IN GOD KEEP YOUR HARDWORK GOING WITH GOOD DOINGS AND JUST HAVE THE PATIENCE TO FIGHT WITH BAD TIMES.

AND DO REMEMBER GOD HELP THOSE WHO HELP THEMSELVES.

Bs RAB HI SAB HAI..........

UNDERSTANDING

Dilon Ki Kahaani Labzon Ki Zubaani 

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Kya main joh kehna chahta tha voh samjh paayi? Usne meri baat toh sun li par voh mujhe smjh ni paaya. Main kya samjhaana chahti thi aur usne kya samjh liya. Meri baat toh kisi ko smjh hi ni aati. Kaash unhone mujhe smjha hota.

Yeh sab voh sawaal hai joh har insaan ko pareshaan krte hai. Yeh voh baatein hai joh sbke man main reh jaati jinka koi jawab nahi hota aur jinki vajah se har koi kabhi na kabhi khud ko down feel karata hai. Kyu hota hai aisa kyu man voh ashanka ya doubts ke baadal reh jaate hai kyun tasalli nahi milti. Aaj main is neev yaani UNDERSTANDING pr baat karunga jiski vajah se yeh saare sawaalon ki imaarte banti hai.

Boss ko kaam se related usi ke sawal ka jawab dene niklo aur reply main kya milta hai, bhashan ki yeh sahi tareeka nahi joh maine poocha uska jawab do. Ab bhayii jawab ki bhasha badal di hai kya, joh yeh tareeka sahi nahi. Seedha bolo na smjh ni aaya.

Girl friend ko batana bhool gya yaa samay na mil paane ki vajah se nahi bata paaya ki boht zaroori kaam se urgent kahi jaana hai jis karan aaj ka plan possible nahi ho paaega, toh girl friend ke hazaar sawal kyu kisliye kiske saath tumhare liye main zaroori nahi. Areh tu zaroori na hoti toh tujhse kiya pyaar kya acting hai meri? 

Din bhar ki thakan main office se ghr aaye bete se maa poochti kya khaaega beta, kya hua chehra itna utra kyu hua hai. Aur beta apni saari frustration thakaan maa ke upr chilla kr bina chahat ke nikaal deta hai. Maa kya sochti ki maine toh apne bete ka haal janne ke liye poocha bs, meri kya galti?

Na jaane aisi kitni baatein hongi joh sirf aur sirf misunderstanding ki vajah se jagti hai, aur jinka output sirf aur sirf worst ya unwanted hi aata hai. Ab kre toh kre kya.

Main manta hun ki sbse pehla step joh ham sabko chadna hai apne aap main voh hai PATIENCE ka yaani sabar. Ham sabmein sabar hona boht zaroori hai. Ham situation ki happening main itne excited yaa itne udaas hojaate hai ki khud ko sambhaal nahi paate , instead we should have that patience factor in us so as to have stable mindset and relaxed heart.

Next step main  hamein sabar ko saath rakhte hue situation main mature act krne ki zaoorat hai. Saamne vali ki baat ko sunkar uska kehne ka mtlb smjhkar ki aakhir voh yeh sab keh kyu raha hai aur fir thande dimaag se uska reply usi ke baat ke according dena chahiye taaki uski baat aapko aur apki baat use bilkul vaise hi samajh aaye jaise aap dono smjhana chahte ho. Isse kabhi misunderstanding nahi hogi.

Ab main apni soch main sbse important baat joh mujhe lagti hai voh kahunga. 

Ham jab kabhi bhi kisi bhi situation main ya communication ka part hote hai toh hamein hamesha saamne vale ki position main rehkr uski kahi hui baat ko smjhna chahiye kyunki isse hamein smjh aajaaega ki uski intention kya hai aur ek baar ham saamne vale ki intention smjh le toh fir koi baat hi ni reh jaati. This is easy to say but practically its very difficult to implement. And if you think once regarding this matter you will find that you might also be lacking somewhere in implementing it, even when you know that you need to. Because its in human nature of not being cool and not  behaving mature with getting bad results in form of conflicts , making angry and so on , which you didn't wanted to actually happen.

Agar Boss apne employee ki baat dhyaan se smjh leta ya Girl friend apne partner pr trust kr uski majboori smjh leti yaa Beta maa ki care bhari intentions pehchaan leta toh kya inme se koi bhi situation bigadti?

That's all we need to understand. We have to keep ourselves cool , possess patience and act mature. You will surely find your heart being relaxed with providing results of positive mindset.

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Thanks. I hope you UNDERSTAND what i am trying to convey.

THANKS GOD OF WHO YOU ARE

Dilon Ki Kahaani Labzon Ki Zubaani 

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Ek machli aur ek chidiya dost hote hai. Dono aksar milte aur baatein kiya krte the. Pr un dono ke man main ek hi khyaal tha , jis baare main unhone kabhi ek doosre se kaha nahi. Dono hi apni jagah apni zindagi se pareshaan the. Machli ko badhi machliyan boht tang krti aur saath hi log aksar us paani ko ganda kr, us machli ka jeena mushkil kr dete. Vahi doosri taraf chidiya ko polluted hava main udhna aur pedh (tree) ki sankhya kam hote , rehne ki jagah na mil paane ki vajah se kaafi pareshaaniyan jhelni padhti. Apni sabhi pareshaniyon ko toh dono hi ek doosre se share krte lekin unhone kabhi apne dil ki chahat nahi share ki. Machli sochti ki chidiya itne khule aasman main jahan chahe vaise udh kr aish krti hai , kitna achcha hai iska jeevan , kaash mujhe bhi aise zindagi milti. Chidiya sochti ki machli ko paani ki duniya main underwater kitna achca lgta hoga , us saaf paani main alag duniya main jeena kitna asaan hota hoga, kaash main bhi iske jaisa jeevan jee paati.

RAB G to sab jaante hai , kiske dil main kya baat hai. Toh aise hi machli aur chidiya ki man ki baat sun VOH un dono ki zindagi ek doosre se badal dete hai. Dono khush . Pr jaise hi machli hava main aur chidiya paani main pahunchte hai , vaise hi dono hadhbadhane lagte hai. Machli ud toh paati hai , chidiya ter toh paati hai lekin dono bhool jaate hai ki machli ko saans paani main aur chidiya ko hava mai hi milti hai. Aur isi vajah se tadapte hue dono RAB G se arz krte hai ki hamein hamari zindagi ki ehmiyat smjh aagyi , hamein maaf kr AAP hamein vaps hamare asli jeevan somp dijiye. RAB G muskura kr unki dua kabool krte hai , aur uske baad dono hi apni apni jagah khushi se bina koi shikayat ke apna apna jeevan vyateet krte hai.

Kya seekha jaa skta hai is baat se. Baat shyd sunne main khaas na lage ya logics na nazar aaye pr is baat ke peeche joh important message chipa hai use smjhne ki zaroorat hai.

RAB G ne jise jahan rakha hai aur jise jitna diya hai us ke liye vahi best hai. Har ek ko yeh smjhna chahiye ki hamein UNSE baar baar apne dil main jagi temporary and badalti chahat ko maang kr , UNHE restrict nahi krna chahiye kyunki kya pata UNHONE usse bhi behtar hamare liye kuch socha ho. UNHE maloom hai kise kab aur kya dena hai isiliye bs hamein UNKA har pal har cheez ke liye shukiya krna chahiye.

Its very important to know and understand the value of what we have and what we are , instead of always praising with what others have. Do not compare your's life with others. Your life is precious gift of GOD and its worth of giving huge importance. Never underestimate yourself and neither let yourself down of where you stand. Its just about waiting for the right time decided by GOD for you and till then having patience in yourself. Keep your faith always alive. HE always shower HIS blessings on you. Be healthy and keep smiling because...........

RAB HI SAB HAI